When we want God to do something, we feel we have to do something to get God?s attention. But we always have God?s attention ? what He wants is for us to have a constant close relationship with Him. He wants to be our first love, not the second or third. Maybe sometimes it seems that God is very quiet ? but in this silence God is testing us to see if we love Him, to see if our love for him will become colder or hotter.